If they are really just looking for friends, why don’t they go on a free site like My Space, Facebook, or Friendster?
If it’s just a clever way to find booty calls, why don’t they go on Adultfriendfinder or Craigslist? Most men can tell a story about how they weren’t looking for anything serious and then fell in love.
Even if I really take my time getting to know someone before we become intimate… Don’t hear from him for days, I assume it’s over…then a text with, “hey are you home tonight? Is it unreasonable that I am hoping someone could take me seriously or see my worth?
I’ve been in a terrible relationship before and honestly now, I’d rather be alone than with the wrong guy.
However, be warned: If you want to read about bragging stories of all those Western guys who get laid a hundred times per day, then you came to the wrong place. You certainly won’t find that here – and not from a foreign girl like me!
And at the same time there’s only a very tiny number of foreign (read: non-Asian) women with Japanese men next to them. Maybe that’s a secret we’ll never quite get, but there are many theories!
This questioning has led many well-known men to adamantly defend their heterosexuality and has tarnished the reputation and careers of others.
It sounds like silliness on the surface, but often times when gossip blogs are the public’s only exposure to trans women, it spreads misinformation, validates stereotypes and causes irreparable damage.
Things that they fear a foreign woman would not agree to do (e.g.
A lot of Japanese women want a guy that tells them several times a day how much he loves them.
For some reason (maybe through the consumption of too many Hollywood movies) Japanese women think that foreign men are like that!
For my part, I realize I’m at fault for waiting three months before asking for some type of commitment.
Hindsight has pointed out that on his profile he listed he wanted a “casual relationship” as opposite to my listing of wanting a “serious relationship”.